Love marriage Vs Arrange Marriage

Paths alone differ.Life destination is same.
My views about Love marriage and Arrange Marriage

1.Love marriage is eating the already tasted dosa.So nothing more to think about as we know the taste already.Arrange marriage is keeping the mouth wide open and waiting for the dosa with mixed of thoughts and emotions.If it is crispy fine or else have to drink the water and close the mouth.

2.In Love marriage, as performance and outcomes of each other are known already, the expectation levels can be pre-determined.In arrange marriage,expectation levels cannot be determined.

3.Love marriage is daring to face all kind of future situations alone in person including the mishappenings if any happened.Need to be more responsible and take care each other.Arrange marriage has less burden as it has more helping hands to take care without being invited.when the love marriage is arranged then it is bliss.

4.Love marriage is maintaining the already trained individual.Arrange marriage is training the new individual without knowing whether the candidate is eligible for training.

5.Love marriage is spicy, very thrilling and is like locking what we want exactly.But Love is a spring breeze.It comes and it gives tremendous fragrance, beauty -- but it goes. When it comes it gives the feeling that it is going to remain forever strong beyond doubt.We give promises and our beloved gives promises without knowing that the love is a spring breeze. It comes when it comes, it goes when it goes. It is not within our hands.We cannot capture it in our fist.We can feel it when our hand is open, its coolness, but the moment our fist is closed sure there will be no breeze,no coolness or fragrance.Have to sit in tears with empty hands watching the sky.
Arrange marriage is wiser as can be sure to get something.

6.Love marriage when it is done without parents acceptance,it is like hearing music in headphone.The couples alone can have joy and share happiness.Arrange marriage is like playing the orchestra.Its like sharing and multiplying the happiness and joy with everyone.

7.Love marriage is like learning the new life through distance education without guru.Arrange marriage  has 24*7 hrs support and assisstance to start the new life.

8.Love marriage is like shopping the matching stead by ourself.No need to change our dress as WE matched it.We can be ourself mostly.Arrange marriage is the stead brought by the parents.If it is not to our expectation,we have to change our dress or have to try to change the new stead bought.

9.In both love and arrange marriage gentle breeze,strong winds,thunder and heavy rain all will blow.Everything will occur in cyclic.Gentle breeze or heavy rain nothing can occur continuously.Everything will change but the lasting periods may differ.

10.If we have futuristic thinking and lot of thinking abilities to decide the good and bad for our life,can play the music and exchange the love wedding ring.Have no thinking abilities but want to eat laddoo for time being atleast,then listen music in headphone and wait for the arrange marriage.

11.Both type of marriages are heaven if it happens as we like.Both are hell and painful if it happens otherwise.When things go wrong,as a human being getting a second thought about other type of marriage and regretting for selecting the wrong person is common.

12.Love marriage is starting life closing the saving accounts and withdrawals of money.Arrange marriage is starting life with good source of income.

13.Humans Beings are social animals.Though human relationships are complex,their needs are very common but with varying wants.

Generally,a need for a passionate,lovable,caring and trustworthy companion to share feelings and thoughts and a need for a happy and peaceful life,all such needs are common.As a social animal,in all stages of life we need a companion for surviving and satisfying our needs and wants.We all are dependant creatures right from the mother's womb.Attitudes,traits and wants of everyone is unique.Each may follow their own unique path in life with different attitudes and mind set in taking decisions about the marriage. But we all are alike with the same emotional needs of having a lovable companion and a happy life.

So marriage matters a lot to all of us.Love marriage or arranged,it has nothing to think basically as participants needs are same.Both kind of marriage is basically 10percent already successfull as the couples needs are same.

14.Whether love or arranged marriage,all means the one denoting a lifetime commitment,creating a relationship bond between two persons and bringing many relationships in our life.Both have its pros and cons and have no infulence in making life success or failure.

15.In both marriages , the participants must understand the facts that both persons are seperate individuals.Traits,attitudes and beliefs of every individual is different.Its sometimes very difficult to get tuned and live together.It happens in both arrange and love marriage.


16.Love marriage or arrange marriage,the participants must know each others needs,wants and desires.Then the tolerance,acceptance and adjustment levels will arise and pay way for the  pre-requisite of marriage called "understang".

Everyone Cant get a matching person .If we want we only have to develop understanding and shape our life by tuning or getting tuned.


17.Love marriage or arrange marriage is not a matter but must be successfull alone matters.Life may or may not give what we desire,but setting the success standards based on the availability,we have to work hard to be successfull in our marriage commitment.

18.Love marriage or arrange marriage in both 100 percent success is not possible.But sure we can escape from the failure with our efforts and patience.

19.In love marriage,demands will come like sparks.In arrange marriage demands will be low initially because of the hesitation to ask each other.

20.My conclusion:

The hardships,happiness and life destination is same in both kind of marriages.Based on our priority to our desires can select any kind of marriage but without losing the path with our best efforts we must reach the life destination successfully with our beloved.

Love marriage ya arrange marriage both weighs equal and same.This post is my entry for the contest Love marriage ya Arrange marriage.

"Nowhere but Up: The Story of Justin Bieber's Mom" Buy It Here

Hello,
we are here with one more deal. 
As we know Justin's mom Pattie had written auto-biography. 
It has been released today on her birthday. 
You Can order it on amazon.
heres the deal : 

Transform Your Thinking

By holding a broomstick,anyone can clean the home.Turn off your thoughts if you think that it is associated with women.This cleaning tool regardless of the sex helps to clean the home when it is handled properly.Broomstick doesn't know to distinguish the sex like human beings.

Touching the broomstick won't affect the dignity of a person.In real,keeping the home unclean only lowers the dignity of its family members.

The Indian Society and the Thoughts to be changed

"The head of the family,supposed male gender touching the broomstick is not good for the family".

"Being a men,touching the broomstick affects our dignity".

If your mind is equipped with these kind of  thoughts-Please, change your thoughts and understand the reality.

A small incident,'A woman after completing her day's work went to her bed tiredly to retire'.At that time unknowingly her husband messed up the bedroom.Then the supposed head of the family started shouting as his place to sleep becomes dirty.she turned her face without caring his words.Other family members were watching the couple with eyebrows raised.'

The whole family is expecting for the tired woman to clean the bedroom.If men say something,immediately women have to obey.when men are awake,women musn't sleep.She has to go around and do what men need until he sleeps.

The whole family made her feel guilty for not doing his spouse needs.So herself she felt bad and cleaned the room.

In this incident,she was tired so she doesn't want to...

For all women if you feel you are correct,don't worry about the society and their weird thoughts.Be bold.Even the whole society threatens you with their weird thoughts you don't bend down when you are correct.

Usually society makes the women more conscious about their work right from their childhood and this mindset prevails among all women irrespective of their education and job.The weird thoughts which are implanted in them by the society must get changed.

Washing the vessels,cooking,cleaning the home,changing the pee and poo of kids are the works meant for women and it has to be done conditionally by a woman even if she is sleeping,eating or suffering from ill health or at any cost.

If anyone thinks that men has no role to play here,please change your thoughts.

Most of the women,thinking all this as their own work,doing it,without expecting from the men.

Another incident,'A woman cooked and served the whole family.Finally when she started eating,her son wetted his pants.Immediately her husband uttered,'Please clean his pant' and walked away.

If you are an alarm giving husband,please change your thoughts and help your spouse.Just think about her stomach and hunger inside it.

Then everyone has an allergy to poo and pee and so please stop treating woman as cleaner.Pee and poo will get washed off even if it is getting washed by men.

Same way if she suffers from ill health,please help her in doing household works.

Turning unhuman or failing to do the responsibility only affects the dignity of a person.Touching broomstick or washing pee wont let you go down.

Be a responsible father,responsible member of the family,share the work and help each other.

Unanimously,each and everyone in the family must think that "This is my home and I have to keep it clean". If you are not responsible inside the family itself,how you can be a responsible citizen?

In most of the Indian families,women are facing these kind of problems and are suffering from stress and depression.Instead of raising your eyebrows and finding fault,please help each other and live happily.Work is not meant for any sex.Please share the work and make your family and world beautiful.

I strongly believe that small changes in each home will bring incredible changes in the whole world.This is  my mission of changing everyone as a responsible family member.And I hope my mission will pave way for my vision of changing everyone as a responsible citizen.

This is my entry for Time to change contest.

Pattie's Suicide attempt and other details in New book!

Justin Bieber's mom had a horrific past! 
She was a drugg addict, she was a teen mom. 
She had abusive past. All these things are in her new book "Nowwhere But Up: The Story Of Justin Bieber's Mom."
Publisher reveals that she had a suicide attempt in 17 and was pregnant in 18. This can be lesson for teen moms. 
So Don't forget to get your copy. 

Justin Bieber Happy With not getting Aborted

As we know Pattie was a teenage mom. There were chances that she would abort Justin. But a twitter user tweeted Pattie telling thank you for not aborting Justin. 
Justin responded too tweeting that user1
Here are tweets : 

@pattiemallette Thank you so much for not abortin @justinbieber Im so grateful nd #ILoveYouSoMuch

— Harnitarh (@ImaPurpleNinjah) March 4, 2012

to this Justin Replied:

@ImaPurpleNinjah that was intense. umm. i guess im happy about that too.

— Justin Bieber (@justinbieber) March 4, 2012

Justin Bieber Looking for Two Mansions!

So now finally legal Justin Bieber is trying to get home out in LA or Calabasas, Calif. 
The third home Justin is interested in is in the Hollywood area, currently being rented by Ashton Kutcher. We're told that place is listed for $10 million.
He also wants to but a place for him and his mom. 
Here's the interview Of Justin when He Called TMZ : 

Source: TMZ.com

Justin Bieber Posts Adorable Pics With Siblings

These are some adorable pics which Justin posted on instagram! 

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Justin Bieber And Selena Gomez Lunch At Benihana

Justin Bieber again had public appearance with family. He was spotted having lunch with family and Selena. 
Justin and Selena were with Jaxon. Benihana is a Japanese restaurant. He was wearing denim jeans and Jeans was indeed looking sexy on him!! and his hair OMB !!!! 
here are HD pics : 

Justin Bieber Wishes Birthday To Trinity

Justin Bieber again showed that he loves his fans. Just posted this video in which he is wishing birthday to Trinity who just turned 9. Justin was with Selena, Jazzy, Jaxon and His Father Jeremy in car. 

Justin Bieber, Selena Gomez Enjoying On Beach with Family

 Justin Bieber is hanging alot with family these days. 
Yesterday he was spotted hanging out with Selena and family. 
Selena And Justin both were wearing yellow. 
Selena was enjoying with Jazzy And Jaxon. 
Here are HD pics:

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Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez Having Fun At the arcade

So Justin is having a fun time with Selena and Family.

They were spotted at the children's arcade and diner chain.

Justin was wearing hot black tees and baggy jeans.  

Selena was happy with Justin's Half brother Jaxon through the venue after arriving around lunchtime. 

They gave some autographs too. 

Justin and family shared pizza out there are here are pics : 
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Justin Bieber asks for apology due to his "Fu*k You" Issue

Justin Was chilling on V-day in Disney land with family, But something happened that made him Say "Fu*k You" to A Belieber. 
When the video, gone public! It was unbelievable cuz Justin can never do this to anybody especially Beliebers! 
Sources say: 
Justin is Very regretful but He says People should understand that he is with family ! 
Aw Justin We can understand! You are a nice person, not a robot you too have a feeling !! 
He loves his family more than anybody else and beliebers Don't forget We are his family !!! 

Justin Bieber Is Awesome Big Bro

Justin gives time to everybody !!! To beliebers, to Selena and now to his siblings! Justin Loves being Big bro! 
He was with is half brother Jaxon on Malibu Beach this weekend!
Justin Played with him and enjoyed alot!
Justin was happy watching Jaxon interacting other kids!! 
Here are pics :

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Justin Taught Something To Siso

Justin has a musical talent and he teaches that her sis Jazzy. She was snapped will playing piano. 
Justin's father Jeremy Tweeted This Pic :

@JazzyKBiebz puttin it down ") yfrog.com/kei7zqsj
— Jeremy Jack Bieber (@LordBieber) February 7, 2012

We're waiting debut album of Jazzy Lol !!!
Keep Posting Your Belieber Stories here: 
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Justin Bieber Having Fun With Dad And Bestie

Justin had a great time showing off his trampoline skills at Sky High Sports with his dad Jeremy Bieber And Ryan Butler

Justin Bieber and his father Jeremy Bieber spent some male-bonding time together jumping on trampolines!

An employee at Sky High Sports in Costa Mesa tells

 “Justin Bieber came in yesterday right when we opened at 2pm with his dad and a male friend. They rented out a private space to jump on their own trampoline. Justin was really sweet and was actually in really good shape. He’s got some muscles on him! They stayed for about two hours and got a really good work-out in. Jumping on a trampoline for an hour burns almost 1000 calories.”

The "Mistletoe" singer showed off his biceps in a 'The Endless Summer' tank top as he, his pops and a friend spent the afternoon at a local trampoline-filled activity center named Sky High Sports.

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